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		<title>By: pale</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132828</link>
		<dc:creator>pale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 21:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Oh fer christs sake, Lukiwski’s “conversion” happened yesterday when he was exposed to the media. Have you checked his voting record on gay rights? Sorry, I’m not buying it.</i></p>
<p> And Bruce nailed it right there! 17 years ago , Lukiwski made that awful comment on a video.<br />
Now, yes it is possible to change ones stripes. Intelligent people do have the ability to do that. But&#8230;.lol. (That&#8217;s not what we dealing with here)<br />
Deeds count too.<br />
He may not be saying that absolutely unacceptable crap anymore, but deeds speak louder than words.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132828','pale'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132828','pale','&lt;i&gt;Oh fer christs sake, Lukiwski&acirc;s &acirc;conversion&acirc; happened yesterday when he was exposed to the media. Have you checked his voting record on gay rights? Sorry, I&acirc;m not buying it.&lt;\/i&gt;\r\n\r\n And Bruce nailed it right there! 17 years ago , Lukiwski made that awful comment on a video.\r\nNow, yes it is possible to change ones stripes. Intelligent people do have the ability to do that. But....lol. (That\'s not what we dealing with here)\r\nDeeds count too. \r\nHe may not be saying that absolutely unacceptable crap anymore, but deeds speak louder than words.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Peter D</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132825</link>
		<dc:creator>Peter D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m just offended as someone with a sense of humor. Nothing they said was even remotely funny. Not even in an ironic way. It was just plain dumb and sophomoric.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132825&#039;,&#039;Peter D&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132825&#039;,&#039;Peter D&#039;,&#039;I\&#039;m just offended as someone with a sense of humor. Nothing they said was even remotely funny. Not even in an ironic way. It was just plain dumb and sophomoric.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m just offended as someone with a sense of humor. Nothing they said was even remotely funny. Not even in an ironic way. It was just plain dumb and sophomoric.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132825','Peter D'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132825','Peter D','I\'m just offended as someone with a sense of humor. Nothing they said was even remotely funny. Not even in an ironic way. It was just plain dumb and sophomoric.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132824</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SL-

For the reasons I&#039;ve stated I don&#039;t see the two episodes as similar so the hypocrisy doesn&#039;t jump out at me.  Also, I suppose, I&#039;m a little inured to hypocrisy in politics.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132824&#039;,&#039;Kevin&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132824&#039;,&#039;Kevin&#039;,&#039;SL-\r\n\r\nFor the reasons I\&#039;ve stated I don\&#039;t see the two episodes as similar so the hypocrisy doesn\&#039;t jump out at me.  Also, I suppose, I\&#039;m a little inured to hypocrisy in politics.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SL-</p>
<p>For the reasons I&#8217;ve stated I don&#8217;t see the two episodes as similar so the hypocrisy doesn&#8217;t jump out at me.  Also, I suppose, I&#8217;m a little inured to hypocrisy in politics.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132824','Kevin'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132824','Kevin','SL-\r\n\r\nFor the reasons I\'ve stated I don\'t see the two episodes as similar so the hypocrisy doesn\'t jump out at me.  Also, I suppose, I\'m a little inured to hypocrisy in politics.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Bruce</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132823</link>
		<dc:creator>Bruce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stageleft, that’s a very good point; why are we allowing these assholes an historical free ride when their own hypocrisy shows it doesn’t make any difference anyway?
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132823','Bruce'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132823','Bruce','Stageleft, that&acirc;s a very good point; why are we allowing these assholes an historical free ride when their own hypocrisy shows it doesn&acirc;t make any difference anyway?'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Bruce</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 18:45:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh fer christs sake, Lukiwski’s “conversion” happened yesterday when he was exposed to the media. Have you checked his voting record on gay rights? Sorry, I’m not buying it.
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		<title>By: stageleft</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132821</link>
		<dc:creator>stageleft</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 18:41:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What about the Conservative Party and its&#039; hypocrisy in this Kevin?&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132821&#039;,&#039;stageleft&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132821&#039;,&#039;stageleft&#039;,&#039;What about the Conservative Party and its\&#039; hypocrisy in this Kevin?&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What about the Conservative Party and its&#8217; hypocrisy in this Kevin?
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132821','stageleft'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132821','stageleft','What about the Conservative Party and its\' hypocrisy in this Kevin?'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: JimBobby</title>
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		<dc:creator>JimBobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 18:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Throbbin, I have a close relative who was a biker, woman-abuser, petty criminal and heroin addict. He bottomed-out at age 42, 15 years ago. Today, he&#039;s happily married, owns a home, has his own contracting business, employs other people. He&#039;s clean and sober and a different person at 57 than he was from 18 to 42. One bad thing: he&#039;s become a bit of a right-winger since he&#039;s changed his life.

Lukiwski and Ahenekew may or may not be sincere in their late life conversions but such conversions are not impossible or all that uncommon. Many middle aged parents are forced to re-examine their ideas and beliefs when confronted with a gay child or a son/daughter-in-law from a different race or ethnicity. 

JB&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132820&#039;,&#039;JimBobby&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132820&#039;,&#039;JimBobby&#039;,&#039;Throbbin, I have a close relative who was a biker, woman-abuser, petty criminal and heroin addict. He bottomed-out at age 42, 15 years ago. Today, he\&#039;s happily married, owns a home, has his own contracting business, employs other people. He\&#039;s clean and sober and a different person at 57 than he was from 18 to 42. One bad thing: he\&#039;s become a bit of a right-winger since he\&#039;s changed his life.\r\n\r\nLukiwski and Ahenekew may or may not be sincere in their late life conversions but such conversions are not impossible or all that uncommon. Many middle aged parents are forced to re-examine their ideas and beliefs when confronted with a gay child or a son\/daughter-in-law from a different race or ethnicity. \r\n\r\nJB&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Throbbin, I have a close relative who was a biker, woman-abuser, petty criminal and heroin addict. He bottomed-out at age 42, 15 years ago. Today, he&#8217;s happily married, owns a home, has his own contracting business, employs other people. He&#8217;s clean and sober and a different person at 57 than he was from 18 to 42. One bad thing: he&#8217;s become a bit of a right-winger since he&#8217;s changed his life.</p>
<p>Lukiwski and Ahenekew may or may not be sincere in their late life conversions but such conversions are not impossible or all that uncommon. Many middle aged parents are forced to re-examine their ideas and beliefs when confronted with a gay child or a son/daughter-in-law from a different race or ethnicity. </p>
<p>JB
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132820','JimBobby'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132820','JimBobby','Throbbin, I have a close relative who was a biker, woman-abuser, petty criminal and heroin addict. He bottomed-out at age 42, 15 years ago. Today, he\'s happily married, owns a home, has his own contracting business, employs other people. He\'s clean and sober and a different person at 57 than he was from 18 to 42. One bad thing: he\'s become a bit of a right-winger since he\'s changed his life.\r\n\r\nLukiwski and Ahenekew may or may not be sincere in their late life conversions but such conversions are not impossible or all that uncommon. Many middle aged parents are forced to re-examine their ideas and beliefs when confronted with a gay child or a son\/daughter-in-law from a different race or ethnicity. \r\n\r\nJB'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: throbbin</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132819</link>
		<dc:creator>throbbin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If the man was 40 then and said that, then I don&#039;t think he should be given the free pass.  He was an adult - a prominent one at that.  

I will understand if he was a kid, or even a young man.  But 40 is too much.  You can&#039;t teach an old dog new tricks.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132819&#039;,&#039;throbbin&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132819&#039;,&#039;throbbin&#039;,&#039;If the man was 40 then and said that, then I don\&#039;t think he should be given the free pass.  He was an adult - a prominent one at that.  \r\n\r\nI will understand if he was a kid, or even a young man.  But 40 is too much.  You can\&#039;t teach an old dog new tricks.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If the man was 40 then and said that, then I don&#8217;t think he should be given the free pass.  He was an adult &#8211; a prominent one at that.  </p>
<p>I will understand if he was a kid, or even a young man.  But 40 is too much.  You can&#8217;t teach an old dog new tricks.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132819','throbbin'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132819','throbbin','If the man was 40 then and said that, then I don\'t think he should be given the free pass.  He was an adult - a prominent one at that.  \r\n\r\nI will understand if he was a kid, or even a young man.  But 40 is too much.  You can\'t teach an old dog new tricks.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Bruce</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132818</link>
		<dc:creator>Bruce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is anybody trying to put this into historical context as though hate speech can be excused by time frame?</p>
<p>Those guys were in their forties when they made those sophomoric, idiotic comments and they were gunning for public office, old enough that their personal social conscience was already well established. 1991 wasn’t that long ago, the dinosaurs had already died off and anybody with half a brain considering a life in politics should have known better. </p>
<p>This is indicative of a conservative mindframe that haunts us all to this day. So I have to ask the question: If the tables were turned, would Lukiwski or Wall be so charitable to you as to place it in historical context?
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132818','Bruce'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132818','Bruce','Why is anybody trying to put this into historical context as though hate speech can be excused by time frame?\r\n\r\nThose guys were in their forties when they made those sophomoric, idiotic comments and they were gunning for public office, old enough that their personal social conscience was already well established. 1991 wasn&acirc;t that long ago, the dinosaurs had already died off and anybody with half a brain considering a life in politics should have known better. \r\n\r\nThis is indicative of a conservative mindframe that haunts us all to this day. So I have to ask the question: If the tables were turned, would Lukiwski or Wall be so charitable to you as to place it in historical context?'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 17:12:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Don’t lump all men under the same banner &#8211; y’gotta hate to be a dude &#8211; because it’s simply not true. Nothing sexy nor sexed about hate.</em></p>
<p>Oh please, don&#8217;t be so quick to jump on the hate bandwagon and lets keep the straw men with the tin men.</p>
<p>It was a time of transition as you note.  What percentage of males do you think have never made a statement more offensive that Lekiwiski&#8217;s. 10%?  5%?  </p>
<p>In the early 1990&#8217;s I had two friends who were gay and even before that I was <em>generally</em> respectful.  Still I&#8217;m pretty sure I used the word faggot and homo.  I certainly used homo in the same way that offend Jim Bob (ie as a synonym for lame).  It never occurred to me to inspect their fingernails. </p>
<p>The point beneath the hyperbole is that this sanctimonious fascination we seem to have developed of trolling through a person&#8217;s history to find remarks that are by todays standards intemperate and then demanding they resign is the real hypocrisy here.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132815','Kevin'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132815','Kevin','&lt;em&gt;Don&acirc;t lump all men under the same banner - y&acirc;gotta hate to be a dude - because it&acirc;s simply not true. Nothing sexy nor sexed about hate.&lt;\/em&gt;\r\n\r\nOh please, don\'t be so quick to jump on the hate bandwagon and lets keep the straw men with the tin men.\r\n\r\nIt was a time of transition as you note.  What percentage of males do you think have never made a statement more offensive that Lekiwiski\'s. 10%?  5%?  \r\n\r\nIn the early 1990\'s I had two friends who were gay and even before that I was &lt;em&gt;generally&lt;\/em&gt; respectful.  Still I\'m pretty sure I used the word faggot and homo.  I certainly used homo in the same way that offend Jim Bob (ie as a synonym for lame).  It never occurred to me to inspect their fingernails. \r\n\r\nThe point beneath the hyperbole is that this sanctimonious fascination we seem to have developed of trolling through a person\'s history to find remarks that are by todays standards intemperate and then demanding they resign is the real hypocrisy here.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Arwen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arwen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:26:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>KevinG - It wouldn&#039;t be the end of the male workforce if all &lt;b&gt;adults&lt;/b&gt; making homophobic comments were asked to quit! This sort of universalism, even as a &#039;joke&#039;, is a statement. It suggests one particular experience is the standard for Male. I don&#039;t know how old you are, but in my generation (GenX), things were already changing.

A good chunk of out-from-the-start adult gay males may not have to quit under your statement, and they&#039;re men. I know a bunch of straight dudes who as early as high school were members of friends of GBLT groups; and a bunch who experimented; and a bunch of folks whose families include queer or trans folks; and there were lots of straight dudes out with me on Queer Patrol; etc., etc. Go to a theatre and make a hilarious homophobic joke in the green room and watch your ass hit the pavement outside before your joke finishes sullying the air. 

There is more than one way to be a man. Standing firm against hatred is one way. Don&#039;t lump all men under the same banner - y&#039;gotta hate to be a dude - because it&#039;s simply not true. Nothing sexy nor sexed about hate. 

(And I don&#039;t think all homophobes should have to quit.)&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132814&#039;,&#039;Arwen&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132814&#039;,&#039;Arwen&#039;,&#039;KevinG - It wouldn\&#039;t be the end of the male workforce if all &lt;b&gt;adults&lt;\/b&gt; making homophobic comments were asked to quit! This sort of universalism, even as a \&#039;joke\&#039;, is a statement. It suggests one particular experience is the standard for Male. I don\&#039;t know how old you are, but in my generation (GenX), things were already changing.\r\n\r\nA good chunk of out-from-the-start adult gay males may not have to quit under your statement, and they\&#039;re men. I know a bunch of straight dudes who as early as high school were members of friends of GBLT groups; and a bunch who experimented; and a bunch of folks whose families include queer or trans folks; and there were lots of straight dudes out with me on Queer Patrol; etc., etc. Go to a theatre and make a hilarious homophobic joke in the green room and watch your ass hit the pavement outside before your joke finishes sullying the air. \r\n\r\nThere is more than one way to be a man. Standing firm against hatred is one way. Don\&#039;t lump all men under the same banner - y\&#039;gotta hate to be a dude - because it\&#039;s simply not true. Nothing sexy nor sexed about hate. \r\n\r\n(And I don\&#039;t think all homophobes should have to quit.)&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>KevinG &#8211; It wouldn&#8217;t be the end of the male workforce if all <b>adults</b> making homophobic comments were asked to quit! This sort of universalism, even as a &#8216;joke&#8217;, is a statement. It suggests one particular experience is the standard for Male. I don&#8217;t know how old you are, but in my generation (GenX), things were already changing.</p>
<p>A good chunk of out-from-the-start adult gay males may not have to quit under your statement, and they&#8217;re men. I know a bunch of straight dudes who as early as high school were members of friends of GBLT groups; and a bunch who experimented; and a bunch of folks whose families include queer or trans folks; and there were lots of straight dudes out with me on Queer Patrol; etc., etc. Go to a theatre and make a hilarious homophobic joke in the green room and watch your ass hit the pavement outside before your joke finishes sullying the air. </p>
<p>There is more than one way to be a man. Standing firm against hatred is one way. Don&#8217;t lump all men under the same banner &#8211; y&#8217;gotta hate to be a dude &#8211; because it&#8217;s simply not true. Nothing sexy nor sexed about hate. </p>
<p>(And I don&#8217;t think all homophobes should have to quit.)
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132814','Arwen'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132814','Arwen','KevinG - It wouldn\'t be the end of the male workforce if all &lt;b&gt;adults&lt;\/b&gt; making homophobic comments were asked to quit! This sort of universalism, even as a \'joke\', is a statement. It suggests one particular experience is the standard for Male. I don\'t know how old you are, but in my generation (GenX), things were already changing.\r\n\r\nA good chunk of out-from-the-start adult gay males may not have to quit under your statement, and they\'re men. I know a bunch of straight dudes who as early as high school were members of friends of GBLT groups; and a bunch who experimented; and a bunch of folks whose families include queer or trans folks; and there were lots of straight dudes out with me on Queer Patrol; etc., etc. Go to a theatre and make a hilarious homophobic joke in the green room and watch your ass hit the pavement outside before your joke finishes sullying the air. \r\n\r\nThere is more than one way to be a man. Standing firm against hatred is one way. Don\'t lump all men under the same banner - y\'gotta hate to be a dude - because it\'s simply not true. Nothing sexy nor sexed about hate. \r\n\r\n(And I don\'t think all homophobes should have to quit.)'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: Arwen</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132813</link>
		<dc:creator>Arwen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:59:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Any 40 year old politician who doesn&#039;t understand the historical resonance of calling a group of people &quot;disease carriers&quot; .... I don&#039;t know. People do change, and I wish to forgive - but that particular kind of discussion of a whole group of people makes me queasy.  If I heard his story on how and why he put his dehumanization down - the story of his shift, rather than just &quot;I&#039;m so sorry&quot;, which MIGHT mean &quot;I&#039;m so sorry that I was frankly honest in a way that would come back to bite me&quot; - I would have a much easier time with understanding this man. 

As it is, I don&#039;t get it, and it scares me.

That&#039;s what it comes right down to. This kind of language scares me; I&#039;m not going to be unscared by an apology that could be for political expedience.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132813&#039;,&#039;Arwen&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132813&#039;,&#039;Arwen&#039;,&#039;Any 40 year old politician who doesn\&#039;t understand the historical resonance of calling a group of people \&quot;disease carriers\&quot; .... I don\&#039;t know. People do change, and I wish to forgive - but that particular kind of discussion of a whole group of people makes me queasy.  If I heard his story on how and why he put his dehumanization down - the story of his shift, rather than just \&quot;I\&#039;m so sorry\&quot;, which MIGHT mean \&quot;I\&#039;m so sorry that I was frankly honest in a way that would come back to bite me\&quot; - I would have a much easier time with understanding this man. \r\n\r\nAs it is, I don\&#039;t get it, and it scares me.\r\n\r\nThat\&#039;s what it comes right down to. This kind of language scares me; I\&#039;m not going to be unscared by an apology that could be for political expedience.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Any 40 year old politician who doesn&#8217;t understand the historical resonance of calling a group of people &#8220;disease carriers&#8221; &#8230;. I don&#8217;t know. People do change, and I wish to forgive &#8211; but that particular kind of discussion of a whole group of people makes me queasy.  If I heard his story on how and why he put his dehumanization down &#8211; the story of his shift, rather than just &#8220;I&#8217;m so sorry&#8221;, which MIGHT mean &#8220;I&#8217;m so sorry that I was frankly honest in a way that would come back to bite me&#8221; &#8211; I would have a much easier time with understanding this man. </p>
<p>As it is, I don&#8217;t get it, and it scares me.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what it comes right down to. This kind of language scares me; I&#8217;m not going to be unscared by an apology that could be for political expedience.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132813','Arwen'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132813','Arwen','Any 40 year old politician who doesn\'t understand the historical resonance of calling a group of people \&quot;disease carriers\&quot; .... I don\'t know. People do change, and I wish to forgive - but that particular kind of discussion of a whole group of people makes me queasy.  If I heard his story on how and why he put his dehumanization down - the story of his shift, rather than just \&quot;I\'m so sorry\&quot;, which MIGHT mean \&quot;I\'m so sorry that I was frankly honest in a way that would come back to bite me\&quot; - I would have a much easier time with understanding this man. \r\n\r\nAs it is, I don\'t get it, and it scares me.\r\n\r\nThat\'s what it comes right down to. This kind of language scares me; I\'m not going to be unscared by an apology that could be for political expedience.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: MW</title>
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		<dc:creator>MW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:20:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For a very long time I believed that the hype over redneck bigots in the Conservative movement was mostly a creation of the left-leaning media in this country. I was willing to give the benefit of a doubt to people whom I knew on the right that they were not a party to this sort of stuff.

The blogoverse has been an education for me. Nowhere is the bigotry and hate of the right so proudly on display as it is in right-wing land online. What I find even more amazing is that these people are so very very comfortable with their bigotry and prejudices that it never even occurs to them that there is a huge segment of the Canadian population that simply does NOT believe in their point of view.

Clearly the fact that this Lukiwski character could make these kind of remarks to the giggling and chuckling audience in the film and not be taken to task for it speaks not only volumes about him, but about the zeitgeist of the Conservative &quot;culture&quot; at that time.

I take it as read that all the &quot;It was 17 years ago... get over it.. bleh bleh bleh&quot; remarks are rationalizing sick behavior. They don&#039;t care that homosexuals were being attacked in this fashion. They regret only that one of their own was caught out.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;132811&#039;,&#039;MW&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt;  - &lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;quote&quot; onclick=&quot;quote(&#039;132811&#039;,&#039;MW&#039;,&#039;For a very long time I believed that the hype over redneck bigots in the Conservative movement was mostly a creation of the left-leaning media in this country. I was willing to give the benefit of a doubt to people whom I knew on the right that they were not a party to this sort of stuff.\r\n\r\nThe blogoverse has been an education for me. Nowhere is the bigotry and hate of the right so proudly on display as it is in right-wing land online. What I find even more amazing is that these people are so very very comfortable with their bigotry and prejudices that it never even occurs to them that there is a huge segment of the Canadian population that simply does NOT believe in their point of view.\r\n\r\nClearly the fact that this Lukiwski character could make these kind of remarks to the giggling and chuckling audience in the film and not be taken to task for it speaks not only volumes about him, but about the zeitgeist of the Conservative \&quot;culture\&quot; at that time.\r\n\r\nI take it as read that all the \&quot;It was 17 years ago... get over it.. bleh bleh bleh\&quot; remarks are rationalizing sick behavior. They don\&#039;t care that homosexuals were being attacked in this fashion. They regret only that one of their own was caught out.&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Quote&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For a very long time I believed that the hype over redneck bigots in the Conservative movement was mostly a creation of the left-leaning media in this country. I was willing to give the benefit of a doubt to people whom I knew on the right that they were not a party to this sort of stuff.</p>
<p>The blogoverse has been an education for me. Nowhere is the bigotry and hate of the right so proudly on display as it is in right-wing land online. What I find even more amazing is that these people are so very very comfortable with their bigotry and prejudices that it never even occurs to them that there is a huge segment of the Canadian population that simply does NOT believe in their point of view.</p>
<p>Clearly the fact that this Lukiwski character could make these kind of remarks to the giggling and chuckling audience in the film and not be taken to task for it speaks not only volumes about him, but about the zeitgeist of the Conservative &#8220;culture&#8221; at that time.</p>
<p>I take it as read that all the &#8220;It was 17 years ago&#8230; get over it.. bleh bleh bleh&#8221; remarks are rationalizing sick behavior. They don&#8217;t care that homosexuals were being attacked in this fashion. They regret only that one of their own was caught out.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132811','MW'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132811','MW','For a very long time I believed that the hype over redneck bigots in the Conservative movement was mostly a creation of the left-leaning media in this country. I was willing to give the benefit of a doubt to people whom I knew on the right that they were not a party to this sort of stuff.\r\n\r\nThe blogoverse has been an education for me. Nowhere is the bigotry and hate of the right so proudly on display as it is in right-wing land online. What I find even more amazing is that these people are so very very comfortable with their bigotry and prejudices that it never even occurs to them that there is a huge segment of the Canadian population that simply does NOT believe in their point of view.\r\n\r\nClearly the fact that this Lukiwski character could make these kind of remarks to the giggling and chuckling audience in the film and not be taken to task for it speaks not only volumes about him, but about the zeitgeist of the Conservative \&quot;culture\&quot; at that time.\r\n\r\nI take it as read that all the \&quot;It was 17 years ago... get over it.. bleh bleh bleh\&quot; remarks are rationalizing sick behavior. They don\'t care that homosexuals were being attacked in this fashion. They regret only that one of their own was caught out.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: JimBobby</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132808</link>
		<dc:creator>JimBobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:35:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>&#8220;It’s hypocritical political b/s based on nothing more than party affiliation and favour &#8211; the current foundation of party politics in Canada.&#8221; </p></blockquote>
<p>It is very hypocritical, I agree fully. I think it goes deeper than party loyalty, though. </p>
<p>There is still plenty of homophobia that goes either unnoticed or we let it slide. A popular schoolyard taunt in the 50&#8217;s and 60&#8217;s when I was alad was to call someone a &#8220;queer&#8221; or a &#8220;fag.&#8221; </p>
<p>Today, things haven&#8217;t changed much. I don&#8217;t frequent schoolyards but even I&#8217;ve heard the derogatory exclamation, &#8220;That&#8217;s so <i>gay</i>!&#8221; I&#8217;ve even heard parents of teenagers use this expression. And, yes, I did react with, &#8220;What do you have against gays?&#8221; Shocked silence and then they never speak to you again. In 2008.</p>
<p>Males in my generation were given a negative portrayal of homosexuals from the very time we learned such people existed. In fact, we learned of their existence by asking just what it meant when the big boys called someone a fag or a queer. Anti-gay prejudice lives on today and has been far more acceptable than racial or religious prejudice. </p>
<p>JB
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132808','JimBobby'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132808','JimBobby','&lt;blockquote&gt;\&quot;It&acirc;s hypocritical political b\/s based on nothing more than party affiliation and favour - the current foundation of party politics in Canada.\&quot; &lt;\/blockquote&gt;\r\n\r\nIt is very hypocritical, I agree fully. I think it goes deeper than party loyalty, though. \r\n\r\nThere is still plenty of homophobia that goes either unnoticed or we let it slide. A popular schoolyard taunt in the 50\'s and 60\'s when I was alad was to call someone a \&quot;queer\&quot; or a \&quot;fag.\&quot; \r\n\r\nToday, things haven\'t changed much. I don\'t frequent schoolyards but even I\'ve heard the derogatory exclamation, \&quot;That\'s so &lt;i&gt;gay&lt;\/i&gt;!\&quot; I\'ve even heard parents of teenagers use this expression. And, yes, I did react with, \&quot;What do you have against gays?\&quot; Shocked silence and then they never speak to you again. In 2008.\r\n\r\nMales in my generation were given a negative portrayal of homosexuals from the very time we learned such people existed. In fact, we learned of their existence by asking just what it meant when the big boys called someone a fag or a queer. Anti-gay prejudice lives on today and has been far more acceptable than racial or religious prejudice. \r\n\r\nJB'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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		<title>By: KevinG</title>
		<link>http://www.stageleft.info/2008/04/03/of-course-its-different/comment-page-1/#comment-132807</link>
		<dc:creator>KevinG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Lekiwiski ’s attitude then and now are not the point here Candace, neither is the concept of “personal change”.</em></p>
<p>Is it reasonable to draw a direct comparison of the consequences and ignore the differences of the actions?  Can that still be hypocracy?</p>
<p>If we made everyone quit who uttered anti-gay words it would be the end of the male workforce.
<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('132807','KevinG'); return false;">Reply</a>  &#8211; <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('132807','KevinG','&lt;em&gt;Lekiwiski &acirc;s attitude then and now are not the point here Candace, neither is the concept of &acirc;personal change&acirc;.&lt;\/em&gt;\r\n\r\nIs it reasonable to draw a direct comparison of the consequences and ignore the differences of the actions?  Can that still be hypocracy?\r\n\r\nIf we made everyone quit who uttered anti-gay words it would be the end of the male workforce.'); return false;">Quote</a></div>
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